Wishes And Pixie Dust

Follow the journey of a Wisconsin family of 4 who relocated to the Walt Disney World area in July 2011


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Setting Goals. Or Not.

[Artwork done by our lovely daughter, Princess Cate!]

One of the biggest challenges we have faced in our move thus far is finding the time to prepare for the move, while continuing to live our lives as normal.  We have been fortunate as we have allotted ourselves six months for the move.  Incredibly, four months have already passed us by, so we expect to step up the packing progress as our time here in Wisconsin comes to a close.

We originally set goals of packing areas by a certain date.  That didn’t seem to work so well, so we moved to setting a goal of one packed box per day.  This method seemed to flow until last week, when life got busy with prom, concerts, soccer, doctor appointments and rehearsals.  The thing with setting goals, is that you need to allow for the unexpected to occur.  One wouldn’t think this would apply with packing boxes.  Unless one has a son who has to play with every toy for two minutes before it gets packed.  🙂  It’s all good, though.

We are stepping away from setting specific goals and just trying to concentrate on getting it either packed or moved out.  The current area we are focusing on is the sunroom.

The desk area is unusable.

As this room seems to be the dumping ground for all miscellaneous paper piles, the challenge is to pack what is not needed.

Our oldest son Nick has already secured his apartment here, and will slowly be moving his belongings out in July.   He was fortunate enough to be able to take advantage of an offer that gave him his first month’s rent free, so this saved on needing to rent a storage unit and stay in a hotel for a week, as his original plan was to find an apartment for August 1.  He will be taking our couch, a chair and other pieces of furniture, which will allow us to use our furniture (and more importantly our beds) until the very end.  He will also be on the receiving end of most of the kitchen appliances and supplies, as well as whatever food is left.

In other news, we have paid our security deposit on our apartment, and will be setting up an account with Progress Energy so that it is all set to go when we arrive in Florida.  Our goal is to spend our first night in Florida in our new apartment 🙂  We may need to purchase air mattresses to accomplish this goal, as we won’t be able to shop for our beds until we arrive.  We will be setting up an account with Bright House for our cable and internet, but will wait until we arrive to make this appointment.

We have found a wonderful Yahoo Group, Clermont Connection Cafe, which has already given us a wealth of information, from lovebugs to wholesale clubs to doctor referrals. Everyone we’ve had the opportunity to talk to who lives in Clermont is very friendly and welcoming to us, something we’ve appreciated immensely.  We look forward to being a part of this wonderful community.


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From AOL to Facebook

It is an accurate statement to say that social media has a significant impact on all of our lives.  We have the ability to connect with individuals who live in many different parts of the world–strangers who become friends.  We feel fortunate to have made so many friends on Facebook who share our dream of the love of Disney; even if you have no plans to relocate to Florida, we still have the common thread of Walt Disney.

You might say our relationship and subsequent marriage started on the Internet.  We met on AOL in a dating forum, and because Mark at the time worked for United Airlines at O’Hare Airport, he was able to fly up to Wisconsin for weekend visits.  Our relationship evolved, and after a short engagement, we were married fourteen years ago this September.   Since that time, we have met and made new friends through the use of Yahoo Groups and emails, and now with the advent of Facebook, the ability to connect with more friends has really increased.

We don’t believe that we would have the courage to make this move without the support of our friends on Facebook and the search engines of Google.  🙂   We wanted to take the time to say thanks for following us and encouraging us as we make this huge step of relocating from Wisconsin to Florida.    There are still lots of details to attend to and boxes to pack, but we really feel like Florida is our home now, mainly through the people we have met online.  So, thank you!

We started this blog mainly for our own purposes, as a fun way to document our adventure.  We didn’t expect that we’d make new friendships and learn new information along the way!    We’d love to hear feedback from you, if there is a particular aspect of moving you’d like us to blog about, or if you’d like to be a guest blogger, please feel free to contact us about that as well.  We’d like to think that this blog is yours as well. 🙂


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Paper Tiger

This morning was spent trying to tame the paper tiger.   As we continue packing and preparing for our move, it would be a fair estimate to say at least 15% of our belongings involve paper in some way, shape or form.  This includes but is not limited to kids’ school papers, personal papers, greeting cards, insurance papers, articles from magazines, stacks of magazines, printed emails, and of course, the filing cabinet, the place where papers go when you don’t know what else to do with them.

We are going paperless as much as possible.   We have requested all statements to be received in email format, if supported by the company.  We pay all our bills online, with the exception of the rent check, which must be mailed, and the water bill, because the city does not offer online or even credit card options for payment.   We are trying to minimize the amount of mail that needs to be forwarded from Wisconsin to Clermont.  We have lost mail when moving a few blocks; we can only imagine how much mail would go missing across a few states.

As we sort through the filing cabinet, we are finding that most papers can be disposed of, and very little needs to be kept.   We hope to be able to contain all our papers within a file box, and maintain this once we move.  We will move the file cabinet, as it is already included in the moving inventory, but it will probably be moved into one of the kids’ rooms as a storage place for papers and journals.

One of the interesting aspects of moving long distance, if afforded the luxury of time, is that you are able to decide what is truly important to you, and you discover the things you thought were so important to you, really do not fall into the category of things that matter. One of the truly exciting things about this move is that our possessions will truly be ones that we want to have, and we will indeed be starting over in terms of acquiring furniture. It is very freeing to let go of possessions that only serve to clutter and complicate your life.


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Say Goodbye to “Stuff”

One recurring theme that we reflect on in our blog is the accumulation of and eventual removal of “stuff”. We live in a very materialistic society, and we are as guilty as the next person of acquiring things.  In the past we have wanted to reduce the amount of clutter that we own, but simply have not been motivated to do it on a large scale.

We do not have a picture of what our basement looked like two years ago; it is too bad that we didn’t snap a photo because we know it would provide inspiration to those of you who think there is no way you could possibly downsize enough because you have too much stuff. We were so there.  Our basement was ceiling to floor boxes, as well as assorted items tucked in between gaps.  We have progressed from a packed basement to an empty basement; a fair “guesstimate” would be to say we have donated/thrown away/sold approximately 60% of our belongings to date.   It is interesting, because many of the things we have kept from year to year are easily tossed into the Goodwill box, without a moment’s hesitation.   They were worth keeping as we moved from house to house within the city, but they are not worth keeping when our move is measured in terms of weight, and we must reduce as much as possible.

We have put together some ideas which have helped us as we sort through our stuff.    We hope that it helps to inspire you to downsize what you own.  If you are planning a move in the next one to three years, trust us.  It is never too early to start.

As you contemplate an item, ask yourself:  “Have I used this in the past two years?”  If the answer is no, ditch it.  It is said that you use 20% of your stuff 80% percent of the time.   Chances are this item falls into the 80% of your items that you never use.  We recommend finding a place in your home where you can keep an empty cardboard box.  For us it was in the closet in the front entrance foyer.  This is your Goodwill box.  Any item you don’t want, place in the box.  When the box is full, take it to Goodwill.  This eliminates the problem of putting items in the basement (or other place) to deal with ‘later’.  Again, trust us, you do not want to sort through an entire basement-full of items that could have been dealt with right away.   We have so been there, done that, and it’s not fun to spend hours and hours doing this.

“But I paid good money for it”, and “I might need it someday” are two common rationalizations that we use to hold on to our belongings.  If it’s not an item that you love or use on a regular basis, it’s time to let go of the item.  Consider whether the item is costing you money, in terms of storage space and/or maintenance.  Would you be able to sell it on Ebay or Craigslist and recoup some of the original purchase price?  If you hold on to every single item that you might need someday, can you reasonably organize it so that you know exactly where it is when you need it?  Probably not.  You’ll not only be storing an item, you’ll also be buying a replacement for it because you’ll have no idea where it is at the time that you need it.  Just ditch it now and give yourself the added space.

For items that hold a special place in your heart, utilize your digital camera and take pictures.  When you find it difficult to part with an item, it’s usually not because you want the item in question; you want the memory that is associating with seeing the item.  Do not save every single paper that your child brings home from school; save a couple.  Take pictures of the projects, then dispose of the projects.   You can place the photos in an album; this will allow your children to see his/her projects more often than if they were stored away collecting dust, and will often last longer than the actual project itself.  The key is to keep only a few favorite items, and photograph the rest.

We recommend writing goals that you want to accomplish, and break it down into baby steps.  We look at it in pieces, because if we looked at everything that needed to be packed at once, it would be way too overwhelming.   Concentrate on one area, and when completed, check it off your list.  You will feel a sense of accomplishment as you progress down your list, and this will keep you motivated to continue on.

Please feel free to comment on ways that you declutter around your home, and what has helped you.  Thanks for following us, and feel free to friend us on Facebook to follow our journey!


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Great News!

If you follow us on Facebook, you already know our great news:  our apartment application was approved, and we will be living at The Gardens at Citrus Tower.  Doesn’t the name just sound like someplace you want to live?  Of course that’s not the reason we chose it!  We feel very blessed to have completed the process so quickly, and we are relieved that we have a permanent address to call home once we arrive in Clermont.  This will allow us to provide forwarding addresses before we leave, as well as set up the kids in school before school ends for the summer.  It’s hard to believe the end of the school year is fast approaching, though we certainly are looking forward to what the summer brings us!

Tonight we attended an awards ceremony at Catie’s school for high grade point average achievement, and realized this would possibly be the last time we would see the inside of her school.  At the elementary school where Ben attends, this will be our eighth (and final) year there.  It’s hard to walk away from an institution that you have been going to regularly for eight years!    We would have this feeling with or without the move, as Ben is in his last year, but it somehow seems amplified given the fact we are walking away from everything.

We’ve been experiencing a lot of “lasts”.  We have tossed around the idea of composing a list of the things we want to do before we leave Wisconsin, similar to the Top 100 List we published for our Florida to-dos, but it possibly will not happen. It may be too depressing to see the things we never got a chance to do, and given the rising price of gas, it is very likely our summer entertainment budget will be minimal.  Ben will have his camp trip at the end of May, and Catie will be going to Six Flags (Great America) before school ends, so the children will at least get a fun trip in each before our move.   And of course, there’s Walt Disney World on the horizon! It is just going to be so AWESOME to be able to go there whenever we want.

We are slowly paring down our furniture.  Our oldest son, Nick, will be staying in Wisconsin and renting an apartment, so he will be taking some pieces, but others we are putting on Craigslist and/or Freecycle.  Right now our goal is to do one box each in the younger kids’ rooms, and they are doing a great job of donating a lot of their personal belongings.  We are very proud.  We started the decluttering process with the idea of keeping only the things we absolutely wanted, motivated primarily by the cost of the move.  Now that we are locked into our price, we have found that our focus has not changed.  We are still going through every item and deciding whether to keep or toss.  We will get a small refund if we go under our estimated weight, but we really like the idea of being able to start over, and we want to do that with as little items as possible.  We will have 2 walk-in closets, as well as other closets, but we are losing approximately 600 square feet than what we currently live in.  It’s all good, we will be one less person with Nick staying in Wisconsin, so I don’t anticipate that we’ll feel crowded in.

Thanks for following along!  Please feel free to friend either one of us on Facebook if you have not already.  We will only keep our Wishes and Pixie Dust profile on Facebook through our move (and settling in period), though our website will stay up indefinitely.