A few days ago a FB Disney friend let me know that they had seen a comment on FB about Jen and I being ‘stand offish’ about meeting people when they visit Disney. I wanted to clear things up a bit. For those who don’t know, our youngest son Ben is autistic. For us this makes meeting people a little more difficult as part of Ben’s autism is that he struggles when he needs to ‘wait’. This is especially hard for him at his favourite place…Disney. So, we do often have to keep our meets shorter than we’d like and sometimes have to miss meets, like Lou Mongello‘s Meets of the Month, on short notice; or leave them very quickly. It also makes it harder to plan meets on a short notice as we can never tell what level Ben’s autism will be at on any given day. And we always do our best to explain why.
We do love meeting our new friends and the time we do get to spend with you all, no matter how short it may be. So, we hope you’ll understand and keep our full situation in mind if we do have to cut a meet short or cancel one; if we do it’s only for Ben’s sake.
Mark and Jen.
January 2, 2012 at 4:07 AM
We should also remember that you’re living your actual life out there Mark, you’re not on vacation, which means that everyday tasks and the needs of your family come first 🙂
January 2, 2012 at 6:48 PM
Thanks Emma!