Wishes And Pixie Dust

Follow the journey of a Wisconsin family of 4 who relocated to the Walt Disney World area in July 2011


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Spring Break

Our kids are on spring break this week, and we have no real plans except to pack boxes. Boring, yes I know.  But with the image of the Magic Kingdom popping into our heads, it makes it so much easier 🙂

Saturday we decided to make up for a lost field trip.  When Ben was in first grade, his class went to the Children’s Museum in Appleton for their major field trip of the year.  However, poor Ben was not able to go due to a stomach flu.  Sadly, yes, it has taken us this long to go there, but we decided it was a must-do before we leave Wisconsin.   I have posted some pictures of the kids having fun:

Ben standing by the human heart exhibit/slide:

Catie & Ben standing in the golf/physics area.  We had to take a picture of them standing underneath the giant golf ball, aka Epcot.

Ben operating a crane:

And of course, suiting up to drive the fire truck!

The kids co-piloting an airplane:

And the treehouse on the way out, which reminds us a little of The Tree of Life at Animal Kingdom:

In other news, we have been slowly packing boxes, and donating unwanted items to Goodwill.   While we were out shopping at Walmart today, our landlord showed our house to prospective tenants.  It seemed really weird knowing that strangers were walking through *our* house!  We officially gave notice April 1st, but he has known since January that our intent was to leave.  He is the most awesome-ist (if that is a word!) landlord ever, and we really wanted to make sure that he had as much notice as possible.  We don’t feel he will have a problem renting this house out.  It really is a great house, and while we are excited about moving into a new place, we are also sad to leave our home.  But our hearts belong in Florida, and that is where we must be.


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Attitude Makes The Difference!

As I was browsing through Status Shuffle on Facebook last night, I came across this status:  “Attitude is the difference between an ordeal or an adventure!” Even though I’m sure a move from Wisconsin to Florida was not the intent of whomever came up with that particular status, I realized that it really has become our philosophy.

Every single person who learns of our move says one thing:  “take me with you!”  Some express the sentiment that they could never do that themselves due to various commitments.  Moving across several states can be considered a huge ordeal.  There are so many considerations to think of:  hiring movers, the packing, researching the area, the packing, finding a new home to live in, the packing, and settling the children in schools, just to name a few.  Did we mention the packing?  :=)

As we have mentioned previously, we choose to think of our move as an adventure.  Things are falling into place nicely, but it’s not all a bed of roses.  There are so many uncertainties, such as where will we live, what do we need to pack in the car with us, what if the movers lose some of our boxes?  The packing itself is a huge proposition and not for the weak of heart.  We have given away a lot of our belongings, some we will not miss, some it hurts to give away.  Even though it’s just “stuff”, it’s funny how we can become so emotionally attached to things.  Mayflower has estimated our box quantity as 102 packed boxes; it will be interesting to see how many boxes we end up with.

Overall we are very pleased at the progress we have been making.  Our original goal was to be done with the downstairs by April 18th.  I don’t foresee that happening; the kitchen itself will probably take a couple weeks in itself, and we haven’t started there yet.  We pack as we have time, but we are not in super packing mode yet.  Our goal is to pack one box a day:  some days this happens, some days not.    We however feel very fortunate that we have had so much time to sort through things, discard what needs to be discarded, and put certain items on Ebay/Craigslist/Freecycle.  It ensures that we will be taking only those items that are meaningful to us.

As we approach our 100th day out, we have been working on a special blog post.  Be sure to come back and visit us to check it out!



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Costco or Sams Club?

Although the calendar says Spring, it is definitely still Winter here in Wisconsin.  As we were trying to find something to do today that didn’t require spending time outside, we decided to take a research trip and visit Costco in Grafton, Wisconsin.  Up until January, we have been members at Sams Club for about 11 years or so.   It has served our needs, but we have heard that Costco is better.  So we went off to find out for ourselves.

We received a one-day pass which allowed us to look around, but not buy anything.  If we wanted to purchase an item, then we would have needed to purchase a membership.  The cost of memberships at Costco are $50, as compared to $40 at Sams Club.  Costco accepts cash, checks and American Express.   Upon reviewing their website, it also states that they accept debit/ATM cards; however, this was not revealed to us at the store.

The prices of the items are very comparable to Sams Club.  Mark noticed that the Costco brand, Kirkland, has a little more variety in the items offered as opposed to the Sams Club brand.  They seem to offer all the items that we purchase regularly at Sams Club.  There are two things we heard that sets Costco apart from Sams Club:  the meat department and the excellent customer service.  We cannot really speak to the customer service, as we really didn’t shop there, we just walked through.  The meat department, though, lives up to its claim.  The prices were reasonable, and the quality of the meat excellent.

Overall, we had a positive impression of our visit.  We did not purchase a membership, because we were not anticipating not being able to use our credit or bank cards.   At the membership desk the representative seemed to be encouraging us to apply for the American Express card, which is not something we want to do.  We are satisfied with the credit cards we have, and don’t need to add more credit to our financial situation.

We have decided to wait until we are settled in our apartment in Clermont, and see what kind of storage space we have available to us.  It makes no sense to obtain a membership if we have no place to store the items we buy.  We have found that in the past with our Sams Club membership it really does pay for itself, and we are certain the Costco one will as well, but we think it’s a decision best left until after we’re settled.

We’d love to hear your good/bad experiences with Sams Club and/or Costco!  Which one do you think is better, and why?


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What a week!

Dear friends,

It seems that we were caught up in our daily life this past week and therefore didn’t put as much attention to our move as we would like.  Even so, we did manage to get a blog post out, make a run to Goodwill and donate two pieces of furniture to two different recipients in our local Freecycle group.  All in the name of progress.

I don’t believe we’ve formally shared this fact on our blog, but our youngest son Ben has autism. We wish to share this information to provide hope as well as information to other parents who may have a child with special needs, and are considering a long-distance move. When I refer to keeping things as normal as possible for as long as possible, he is the reason why.  We are acutely aware that this major life change, while good, will be hard on him especially.  Right now he is very excited to move to Florida; he has really embraced our dream, and it truly is a dream we all share:  Mark and I would not consider moving if it proved to be a true hardship for either one of our children.

On Monday, I met with his teachers and staff for his annual IEP meeting.   I have been very open with the school as far as our moving intentions, so they have been aware for a couple of months now that we are relocating.  We are moving forward with his IEP as if we were staying here, and modifying his curriculum to meet those needs.   Until we have our permanent residence, it is too difficult to guess what might happen in Florida.   The special education teacher has put in several phone calls to Clermont Middle School, all of which have been not responded to at this point, and I admit, it’s a little disheartening.  Our intent is to place Ben in public school, but I am also willing to homeschool/virtual school him if the public school district does not meet our needs.

Tuesday was our Ben’s 11th birthday.  We celebrated by going to Chuck E Cheese for dinner, and then back home for an ice cream cake and presents.

Wednesday was “spend a lot of money on car repairs” day.  :=)  We currently have two vehicles, but we made the decision from the start that we would only be moving one. Unfortunately, the car we are selling decided to have a flat tire, so we replaced that on Wednesday.  We also brought in our other car for a tune-up, as we had a $20 coupon to our favorite auto repair shop.  $700 later, our car is in tip-top shape :=).  We will be bringing it back in July to make sure there are no additional repairs that need to be completed.  We are using the sale proceeds from our 1st car to pay off the loan on our 2nd car.  We are excited to be able to begin our journey without car payments.  We considered trading in both our cars for a newer and bigger vehicle; we have our eyes on a Hyundai Santa Fe, but as long as our car is in good condition, we’re going to wait and save up money for a bigger down payment and look at buying a new vehicle in a year.

Thursday was St. Patrick’s Day as well as Catie’s orchestra concert.  The corned beef turned out delicious in the crockpot, and Catie played her violin beautifully.

Today (Friday) we sold a craft storage container for $5 on craigslist,  did some decluttering in the sunroom, and our Mayflower rep brought over a huge stack of boxes for us.  Right now the challenge is where to put the packed boxes.  We are still four months away from our move, and while we live in a fairly big house, there really is little available room just to stack boxes.  This is why we have started to donate/sell our furniture this early.   Catie has her solo ensemble choral performance tomorrow, but we are hoping to find time to empty out the secretary and list it on craigslist.  We are fortunate in that we have a small foyer by the front door, and this enables us to put our furniture or other belongings there while they await pick-up.    The area in which the secretary is in will allow us to place quite a few packed boxes there.

We also went to the local book sale at the Fairgrounds:  it’s our yearly tradition and we always spend at least $30 in books and magazines.  This year we spent $0.   Every book or magazine was looked at in the context of :  “Do we really want this bad enough to move it?” And the answer every time was “no!”.    It really wasn’t as enjoyable this year because of that.  While this transition time in moving is necessary and worthwhile, we also long for the day when we are settled in Florida and able to relax into routines, and yes, acquire “stuff”.  :=)

We appreciate your readership:  please feel free to add us on Facebook if you haven’t as of yet, and we love to read your comments about our adventure :=)  Some of our decisions have been made because of your feedback, so we do appreciate them all.

Enjoy your weekend!


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Packing those boxes

We are going to share several packing tips that we’ve come across recently, in the hopes that it might help others who are moving long-distance.  Even though we’ve moved a few times, we’ve come to realize that our packing methods were less than acceptable. Thankfully we’ve had minimal breakage over the years, but with a 1,295 mile trip, we want to ensure our boxes arrive safely.

1.  Start off with having the right supplies.  Packing tape, packing paper, bubble wrap and sturdy boxes are four essential items.  It is recommended to use clean newsprint for your packing paper, so the ink does not transfer to your belongings.  We were able to buy end rolls of paper from the local newspaper company for $2 per roll.

2.  Boxes need to be packed tightly.  If you pick up a box and can hear things shifting and moving around in there, there will probably be breakage.  Fill in all the gaps with packing paper.  If you have children who are bringing stuffed animals, they make great filler.  It doesn’t add a lot of weight to the boxes, and it prevents needing separate boxes for them.

3.  Plastic totes are not necessarily the way to go.  If they ship during transit, they could pop open and all your belongings will be scattered in the moving truck.  We do have a few that we are bringing but we are going to secure them with wrap and packing tape and hope for the best.

4.  When packing breakable items, fill the bottom of the boxes with crushed paper.  This is where buying the end rolls of paper really come in handy.  You can rip off as much as you need.

5.  Books should be packed in a small carton and placed on end (not on top of each other).

6.  Plates should never be packed flat; place on end. When wrapping plates, start from the corner and wrap diagonally, tucking in the edges as you go.   Fill the bottom of the box with crushed paper, place plates on end, and then separate layers of plates with crushed paper.

7.  Bowls will be packed the same way as plates.

8.  When packing bowls with lids, first wrap the bowl and tuck paper on the inside.  Then place lid on top and wrap entire bowl again.

9.  When packing stemware, roll a piece of packing paper and roll along the stem of the glass.  Then wrap each piece individually with more packing paper.  Stemware should be placed on edge in the box (up–> down).

10.  Cups should be wrapped individually and then packed into the box upside down.

11.  For odd-shaped items, roll a piece of packing paper around the handle.  Then wrap the item using new paper.

12.  If you have silver in a chest, there are two possible ways to wrap.  You may wrap pieces individually and reposition in the chest, or you can fill in the empty spaces in the chest with tissue paper.  Wrap the entire chest in a paper pad or bubblewrap.

13.   Vases should be wrapped in bubblewrap and then in a paper pad.

14.  Be sure to label all boxes with breakable items as FRAGILE with an arrow pointing up.

15.  Mirror boxes are available to wrap mirrors or picture frames, and are adjustable to fit the size you need.  Wrap in paper then place in a mirror box.   Be sure to tape all the way around the box.

16.  Electronic devices should be unplugged 24 hours before you move, to allow the devices to come to room temperature.  The same rule applies when you arrive at your home or apartment:  allow 24 hours before plugging in.

17.  When possible, use the original packing and boxes for TVs and computers.  Cut out a piece of cardboard to fit your screen before packing.

This is where we will give a shameless plug for Mayflower.  :=)  If you visit www.mayflower.com you can view different moving videos (which are also available on www.youtube.com; do a search for Mayflower).

Mark and Jen